One Hat at a Time News a monthly publication for people with more hats than heads, more roles than time
April 2005
This month we feature the Jester's silly cap in honor of the inner fool--that part of us that delights in bending rules, living fully in the moment and bringing us the gift of resiliency.

In the spirit of inviting more lightheartedness and resiliency into the world, we are thrilled to open the virtual doors of the New Hattitude Spa for you. Please take a moment to look around and let us know what you think.

Play on!

Christie Latona and Laura Lind-Blum

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  • New Hattitude Spa Sneak Peek
  • Surely You Jest! (and don't call me Shirley)
  • Inspire Your Inner Jester -- 10 "Foolish" Habits
  • Priming the Paradox Pump
  • Let's connect in New Orleans
  • The Perfect Mother's Day Gift

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    Surely You Jest! (and don't call me Shirley)
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    April is a fine time to be Foolish. And by no means the only time. Our April Fool's Day is a faint echo of the medieval Feast of Fools, where all conventions were given a week off and the normal order was turned upside down. Masters and slaves traded places, dignitaries were ridiculed, and everybody got a license to act out rebellious feelings. And that medieval week of social anarchy was itself was no doubt a descendant of a much older Roman holiday. Turning things upside down once in a while is an age- old way of maintaining balance.

    The court jester had a similar function - lightening up systems that were otherwise in danger of taking themselves too seriously. The Jester is the spirit of spontaneity, the wild card, the natural intuitive, the wise fool. It is the needed naivete that announces that the emperor has no clothes.

    Put on the silly hat when the situation calls for its special kind of smartness:

     

    • When conventional wisdom needs to be challenged.
    • When you're stuck, and exaggerating the situation or turning it upside down could yield some interesting insights.
    • When the atmosphere in the office or the meeting is fraught with pent-up hostility - find the humor in the situation and ease the tension with laughter.
    • When you sense that you are putting too much energy into defending some position or practice.

    Above all, the Jester is a source of fresh energy and fresh ideas. Give this goofy headgear a place in your hat wardrobe, and you'll be rewarded with freedom, innovation, and the wisdom that comes from being a wild card.

     


     
    Inspire Your Inner Jester -- 10 "Foolish" Habits
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    1. Make mundane tasks a spirtual practice. Elevate dishwashing, commuting to work, laundry folding, even cat box cleaning -- any task -- as if doing so brings you closer to the divine.
    2. Take yourself on a jester date once a week. Plan an activity that is sure to feed your inner fool (hint: something that is pleasurable and makes you feel alive!).
    3. Reduce stress by exaggerating it. Ask "What is the worst thing that could happen?" Notice -- usually -- the world doesn't come to a screeching halt (and don't forget to laugh).
    4. Celebrate your own feast of fools--switch roles with someone for the day.
    5. Eat one meal backwards (starting with dessert).
    6. Remember The Art of Possibility Rule Number 6: Don't take yourself so @#$%^! seriously!
    7. Hone your Jester skills by reading one email a day in 5 different & dramatic ways. Each time read it using one of the following techniques: exaggeration, physical humor, double entendre, sarcasm, deadpan.
    8. When a problem rears its ugly head, play with it or play a trick on it.
    9. Ask a silly question.
    10. Surpise us.

     


     
    Priming the Paradox Pump
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    Ah, paradox! The perfect playground for sparking your jesterly self. Muse on these wonders from around the web:
     
    • Why is the third hand on the watch called the second hand?
    • If a word is misspelled in the dictionary, how would we ever know?
    • If Webster wrote the first dictionary, where did he find the words?
    • Why do we say something is out of whack? What is a whack?
    • Why does "slow down" and "slow up" mean the same thing?
    • Why does "fat chance" and "slim chance" mean the same thing?
    • Why do "tug" boats push their barges?
    • Why do we sing "Take me out to the ball game" when we are already there?
    • Why are they called "stands" when they are made for sitting?
    • Why is it call "after dark" when it really is "after light"?
    • Doesn't "expecting the unexpected" make the unexpected expected?
    • Why are a "wise man" and a "wise guy" opposites?
    • Why do "overlook" and "oversee" mean opposite things?
    • Why do we park on a "driveway" and drive on a "parkway"?
    • If all the world is a stage, where is the audience sitting?
    • If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?
    • Why do we put suits in garment bags and garments in a suitcase?
    • Why do we wash bath towels? Aren't we clean when we use them?
    • Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?

     

     

     
    Let's connect in New Orleans
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    Are you attending the Coachville Conference? As some of you may remember, we launched the One Hat At A Time deck at the 2004 Coachville Conference in Orlando. So this year's conference marks a bit of a milestone for us. While we don't have a booth in the exhibit hall this year, Laura will be attending the conference and she'd love to meet up with you -- maybe we can gather a group and have dinner together, share a "WooHoo!" and proudly wear out party hats! "Hmmm..." Laura says, "That get's me thinking..."

    If you'd like to hook up, you can either send an email to laura@onehatatatime.com, or look for an info flyer on the communication bulletin board at the conference. Hope to see you there!

     

     
    The Perfect Mother's Day Gift
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    Giving birth...becoming a Mother...it is an awesome act of creation. Looking for a gift that honors and nurtures that creative spirit? Look no further. New Hattitude Spa Gift Certificates are a pleasure to give and to receive. They never expire, they are never out of style and they are perfect for people who have everything but peace of mind.

     


     

     
    New Hattitude Spa Sneak Peek
     
    Shed tension, reconnect to your creative self and restore natural resiliency in the privacy of your own home or office. Increase well-being. Improve decision- making. Convert stress into positive energy. Experience the ultimate treat or give it as a gift to someone you want to pamper....

    As special One Hat At A Time folks, you are invited to take a sneak peek at the first ever virtual spa, before it's formal grand opening.

    While we are preparing for the Grand Opening festivities, we invite you to schedule a perspective massage or try our alignment assessment or one of our other services designed to create a new breed of pampering for the mind and soul.

    Back in February, we asked you to cast your vote to name this new venture -- even before we fully knew what shape it might take. Today, we found ourselves creating a bit of a different service than we originally imagined, and dancing with a name that didn't appear on any of the lists. How fascinating! We truly want to thank those of you who responded with your votes and your additional suggestions.

     

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